By Malie Bifc USA
After completing his 2nd monkhood, a superstar Bie Sukrit Wisetkaew is coming back to work (in showbiz) again.
Bie attended a spiritual offering/ opening ceremony for a movie called “Teacher’s Diary” with GTH at 31 Sukumwit… we have to ask him how life is faring after monkhood. We also wanted to ask him about rumors that said Bie went into monkhood a 2nd time because he was so discouraged and because of a vow. We also wants to get an update on Bie’ state of the heart, and for what reason(s) he refused to open his mouth about it.
Why did I go into monkhood for the 2nd time?... monkhood to me is like winning lottery. In real life, we can win lottery multiple times. Ordination into monkhood is an act that allows us to earn the highest merit… it is also a thankful act and an act fulfilling obligation to our parents.
There were talks that said I went into monkhood because I was down, distraught and discouraged…
In fact during the period that I went into monkhood, I was not discouraged or distraught at all. Actually, I dedicated my 2nd monkhood to my work and Acts Studio. Discourage happened 2 years ago. Back then, there were problems related to work that I was not able to find solution.
Did I go into monkhood because of a vow I made?…
No, it was not. I didn’t make any vow. I don’t like to make a vow. But I will ask for a blessing.
Your question was… how do I feel when I went into monkhood with clear conscience but people saw it differently…
This is the part that I have to disclose and preach. Buddhism has been taught for thousands of years. A very small part of it is being taught in my generation… but when my generations are gone, another generation will carry on and so on and so forth… We can not change a person’s thinking in one or two days.
You asked whether I would go into monkhood for the 3rd time…
if there is an opportunity, I will do it again. It would be a short-term monkhood since I still cannot leave everything behind, yet… short-term as a refresher course… refreshing yourself with the teaching to calm one’s mind and be at peace”.
“Let my younger peers talk openly about their love life. Me? I will continue to keep the subject behind close door. When you work for the public, you have to think of people at large.
But under normal circumstance, I do love my privacy. Yes, I have someone to talk to… but I will not tell you about it. I like to keep it as a private matter by choosing not to talk openly about it.
When will I be ready to talk about my love life?…
My plan for the future… I plan to get married around 33-34… get married and start a family right away. I will tell everyone right before I get married. In the past many people knew whom I talked to, but I never admitted to it 😀
If it was only me alone and not working, I would stand up like a man and admit to everything. But I do not work by myself… I work for a large size company. There is my personal manager who takes care of me, there is a PR… behind these people is my boss… there’s also a certain public image that one has to maintain and take care of.
I can’t just think about myself and said who cares about other people. I can’t do that. It’s not wrong to announce to the public about a relationship.
I have a simple and an easy going life, nothing complicated… just that I love a calm and peaceful life… it’s ok if only my family knows about it.
Let them be shock. This is a personal matter and I am comfortable handling it this way. I think it would be fun to shock people. 😀 So, there would be a funny story on the front page of a newspaper to read about. Who knows, there might even be a shotgun wedding 😀
I can talk about whom I am seeing, etc… but I choose to tell only people who are close to me... at least, I have to tell the PR team who is there to help clearing up news for me. News media? no, I cannot tell the news media at all 🙂
The person whom I talk to… will she understand this kind of thing?
No. It’s very hard to find someone who understands my situation… very hard for this type of work.
I refuse to talk openly about my love affair… not because of my fanclubs. I am afraid it would affect my work… because people would focus more on my personal life instead of my work.
Whether I am afraid that my popularity would drop…
If it affects me only, I am not afraid. But if it would make an impact on the company… I have to be mindful of the company. Therefore, there is a limit to what I can say and cannot say about my love life. The company would say my answer should be at this level, etc… and I should not overly expose myself … whatever it is, I am under contract. If and when I work by myself and have no one or a company to think of… I would be able to say anything openly. When there are other people involve, I have to think of those whom I work with. It’s not nice to disparage people.
Anyway, at this moment I don’t have anyone. Just like any other guys, there is a small (conversation) here and there… it’s encouraging (boost one’ spirit 🙂
Some people may say that I am a flirt… I would say it depends on how you look at it. We have to know what we set out to do and where we stand. Once set and if we think we do our best, anything else does not matter.”
source: วันจันทร์ที่ 9 กันยายน 2556 เวลา 00:00 น.
Notes: One of his younger peers came out and announced to the public about his love relationship with an actress. So many problems followed “them” after that announcement. After Bie’s younger peer made that announcement there were talks that said Bie should be a man by admitting or talking openly about a relationship.
My opinion – I think everyone has their own opinion and sees things differently. For me, I agree with Bie and I am glad he chooses to handle the situation this way. The most important point is he is comfortable with it and it’s the best solution for everybody involves. Not everybody will agree… but that’s life 🙂